Friday, November 25, 2005

Helpful Relationship Questions


Below is a suggested list of questions to ask regarding your relationships


What can I do to be perceived by the other person as trustworthy, dependable and consistent?

Am I being expressive enough that who I am as a person is being communicated?

Am I experiencing positive emotions and feelings with this person?

Do I need this person to make me whole, or am I whole unto myself, and this person adds to my completeness?

Am I secure in this relationship? Are they secure with me?

How much “baggage” have I brought into this relationship? How much baggage do they have?

Can I empathize with this person?

Do I accept their “total package” i.e., accept them as they are?

Am I effectively communicating with them? Are they with me?

Can I in some way add to their life?

Will I hold their past against them? Are they holding mine against me?

Will I be there for them when I am needed most? Will they be there for me?

Can I freely hug this person? Can they freely receive a hug?

Can I frequently say “I’m sorry?” Can they forgive easily?

Are we spiritually in tune with one another, and not bound by religion?

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